Wednesday, March 30, 2011

2 States and that thing called Love

Hiii....God!.... finally I got my brain in gear and cajole my hand to write this post, coz I was bit confused to write about what. Actually this blog writing worked like a therapy for me, earlier my brain works like a smoking chimney who fuss about things n various thoughts going through my mind and slowly slowly it was turning in to detrimental to myself, though nobody sees smoke coming out of my head n I haven't turned in to green Hulk. But ever since I have started writing the blog, it cleans up the space in my mind for new thoughts and I feel relief-ed n fresh, same like as the professor Dumbledore does in the movie(Harry potter), just a difference he does it with his wand.

Okay coming to the point.....in this post m sharing my thoughts about two books.

Recently I have finished reading on two national bestsellers..........Firstly non other than the Chetan Bhagat's - "2 states" (I know I have accomplished it a bit late, but I can't help it m a house-wife too, so I have to finish bundles of task first). secondly, the Tuhin A Sinha's - "that thing called LOVE". Well the later one I have started first during my journey from Gwalior to Delhi.

I can count the number of people on my fingers that night in Shatabdi (and these railway people said there is no seat available as they always do, as we travel for free in trains).I was feeling a bit alone among the bunch of strangers and since I had three full hours to do nothing just to sit n guard the luggage n also to guard myself keeping one Kareena's dialog in mind, "akeli ladki khuli tijori ki tarah hoti hai " from the movie Jab we met. So for my sake I decided to read this book, though I have bought this a year earlier but never read it......

that thing called LOVE is a love story of a guy named Mayank an eligible bachelor and the girl Revathi a happily married woman with a lovely daughter. Story was good,cover page was beautiful, emotions were good, feeling were natural, language is too Hi-fyi with some adult expressions but one thing I caught on why a happily married woman falls in love with a bachelor guy with no strings attached? but the vice versa is bit common.
Well the story ends with nothing in hand for both the guy n the girl. So I felt bit disappointed....and then as always.. my husband advised me(thats y I love him he always know my comfort zone) to read over the "2 sates" which he has gifted me once and again for the same reason I couldn't get through it. So then I said lets cut it off n read this.....

2 sates is also a love story of Krish n Ananya from different states of India....I just love everything about the book....mostly the humor which was awesome n for which I like to read chetan...for me the humor is only one thing which makes an individual loving n demanding...so the sense of humor is really important which I think.
From starting to the end I can't resist myself to giggle over. God bless Chetan n his generation to sweeten up our free time when we seek some light thoughts. So for all those who still have not made it to read this one.......Its a must read!!!!!

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Martians Vs Venusian = Love

Let it be the end of the day or night, the Sun or Moon, World or some other universe, What so ever....
Martians will be Martians and Venusian will be Venusian!


What!.... are you thinking about Aliens!!! com'on let them rest in peace.Well remember John Gray's bestseller - Men are from Mars,Women are from Venus.Yes now you are saying!, those Martians and Venusian I'm talking about.I like this book and the concept it contain. After all Martian vs Venusian is never finishing war of the worlds...

Well yesterday evening I realize this is the never-ending war but ever interesting too. Friend couple have come for the dinner (though they have self-invited themselves, but honestly I like that because I was feeling low and need friends Thanks guyz!) so like every-time the war begins for many reasons(according to we the wives) and for no reason(according to them the husbands). Everyone trying to go down fighting.Martians were blaming Venusian and the vice versa. After being crazy about Martian a true Venusian always needs a company of another venusian to talk about things and this will also go vice versa.

Being married for almost two years, I have found that fighting is yet another time pass to do when doing nothing at home....but fight about do's n didn't-do's by your spouse with friends can be a laugh a minute because everyone has the same story to tell about their spouse. The same thing happened with us yesterday and in the end me-husby and friend couple discovered that things are normal, the story is same all around the world and we just died laughing that nobody will be going to change, Martians will be Martians and Venusian will be Venusian.

When Fight goes out from the main door then secretly Love enters from the backdoor and we ended up the dinner with love and peace. After-all love is the reason we fight for. So when we fight, it also bring us closer and gives reason to tell your spouse, "See after all the crap things you do, I still love you and care for you :).

Thanks for coming through all the above written outlandish words just for your convince you can derive the above explanation from this expression


Martian Vs Venusian = Love

Happy Living !

Friday, March 4, 2011

An Unforgattable Roadways

That was the one hard day as well as, one of the beautiful day of my life...Hard because I have never been far alone from my family and my home, It's actually feels really bad to see your family leaving you alone at some place let say for a cause....of course! and Beautiful because it's such a pleasing and satisfying place, the smell of fresh air Oh! I can't forget that day.But I Can't handle two contradictory feelings at once, right! so the day was hard.

Now first let me tell you about the place and the cause. Mysore was the place and I was there for my M.Sc dissertation work (the cause). That day I cried, I prayed, I missed and bundle of things.....On the good part I met new people there, I would like to admit here one thing that I feel fortunate that I met my Sir and his beloved wife (My mentor under his supervision I was performing my project work. ) They was our local guardian too over there. "Our"...Forget to tell you about my companion...My dearie friend,she has joined me there under same circumstances and of course for a same cause.

We actually promoted our friendship from classmate to best-est friend in Mysore only(well to tell this tale I need to write another blog.....later!). We both have enjoyed our freedom under a propitious supervision of Sir. Well for me I can say that Sir has made me more responsible person than earlier(I understood the responsibilities towards myself and improved my eating habits ) though the things have never been taught us in a classroom way by him. His life-lessons were enthralling and frolicsome.

Here I can reminisce one incident, during our small journey from Mysore to Khushal nagar (a small town which is nearby to Mysore). On the way... Sir was indicating things so that we can mark them in our mind forever and whenever we revisit the place we can easily get there. Though it was the small act but very valuable.I really admire sir for every act of teachings he bequeath.... to see life in a contemplative way and able to make decisions further in life.

I have written this post in more serious way...because I'm dedicating my this post to Sir and Ma'am both and Thank them for all those lessons, efforts and love they imparted because of which I feel proud of myself and I see myself a better person today.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Let It Be In The Nachos Way!

Hey! pals.....yes think it in the Nachos way!!!!!

well I'm not going to tell you the recipe of Nachos here, instead I'm going to tell you how this recipe spiced up my life indeed.

Sometimes you don't know how surprisingly things confront you in your life and become your taste. Taste is what you look for every now and then in life but sometimes on the contrary taste might look for you too. I'm sure you might have listed all your unlike-d veges which you have been ignoring since childhood but on the account of infinite reasons you are eating them today.(If things are not like this for you then reconsider it...because nobody is perfect.)

So Refocusing on my Nachos love story here.......

It was the late December of 2008, when I was on kind of vacation. I went to my uncle's place in Noida, U.P. It was a usual day of having fun with cousins and family. we went for the movie "Rab ne bana di jodi" (ok now all Shahrukh lover plz do you mind!). As always I use to have popcorn n coke in the interval and that day was no different, besides this there was one more thing which used to happen every time whenever I went for the movie with my cousins.......

My cousin use to present me the service of this unfamiliar golden brown triangles with sort of dips n sauces, saying, "wanna try"(There's one thing about me which i don't like, I always say No when somebody offers me something...seriously I suffered great losses due to this nasty habit of mine.) This time I gave it try and grabbed a piece of nachos, dipped it into the sauce and show it a way straight to my mouth (for a change you can imagine this act in slow motion.)

And the moment of Eureka!......I have never tasted something like this.....I was so much in to the taste that to feel it once again, when I move my hand to grab one more piece of it...I realize that the generous offers are always limited.
"Nachos!!!!!!!!!!!"


Since then I'm in love with nachos.(Rab ne jodi bana di) and whenever I have gone for a movie I had nachos only.....My husband is also familiar to this taste of mine now and he always buys nachos for me, so what he goes for the combo pack and interested in other things beside nachos in that pack, but he always thinks about me first. I love him.

No matter how boring and unbearable the movie is...I just want the XL pack of nachos to chill me down. The one reason behind disliking Dhobi Ghat movie was zero intermission in the movie. I was waiting for the interval die-heartily only for the nachos. Now I always make sure this thing before going for the movie.

That day i felt it happens same in life too, our source of happiness set timely and we should always look for the right time to appear, but what we will do when that particular time is only escape from the row. We will wait for yet another series of time to come, after all its just a matter of time.

My penchant for Nachos(Happiness) is still on.

My genuine advice : At some hard phases of life, we should have the patience of a saint. That's what my two cents.

The Moment Of Getting Inspired

So here I go....

Whenever you get in to doozy feeling moment when yours eyes shed some happy-tears(or whatever tears), and you feel like something is being filled in you, which lighten up your body and you start flying(No no I'm not talking about Red bull here). your inner voice bellow,"Why I haven't thought in this way...I can do this too....Yes I can."

What you will call it?

The moment of inspiration.......

I don't know how many of you harmonized on this point of mine, but this feeling is very common to me. Since childhood I'm getting inspired by things, people, acts blah blah....The list is so long.

At first I was inspired to became a "Heart surgeon",then a "Microbiologist", then a "Scientist"(On the take of biology course what else you can think to be aspirant off.)..

Oops! I missed out "The Wildlife ranger" how can i forget this one, after the declaration (without knowing the fact that it doesn't happens in India), everyone had poked a fun at me(Thanks to National Geographic channel).

After the decay when I developed a interest in novel reading...I wannabe "the Writer"(Which is still on) then...Actress/Miss World....hey every girl have dreamt to be a actress or Miss world, until she realize her facts and it just becomes a pipe dream.

It's not a long past when I genuinely got inspired by the movie "Julie & Julia".... I can reminisce it very well. Once my husband told me about the movie and tagged it as 'must watch'....then what, I followed it, became fan and i loved it...Two women, one became the inspiration and one got inspired. Such a beautiful movie which not only tells the story of two remarkable women but harbuors a lot of values in it.



Life gives you many rendezvous with some people, act or thing which may directly or indirectly effects you. But point to ponder here is whether inspiration choose you or you choose the inspiration, though the result of both might not be the same, it really effects your life. So inspire someone with something or get inspired.


Genuine advice: whenever you get inspired with someone don't let him/her knows it...coz the beauty of the moment lies in the silence only this's what my two cents.

Greetings!!

Hello World!

I'm so glad to tell you that the season of blogging is just started for me on word-press. With me it's always a starting problem, whenever I want to do something new, but when i get started its hard for me to pick it up for long. No..no this is not because I'm busy in life with prior things, it's just I'm not dedicated to myself. My last blog(which was the complete disaster) is a very good example of disloyalty to myself.

But but but.......(Wait Don't Jump to Conclusions! If I say a word repeatedly 3 times it means ok wait there's something I'm up to or its my final take.) I have promised myself, "alright Akku its about time, save your damn Blog! ".

So Greetings Pals...its my renew blog and i hope u will find it pleasurable and benevolent.

Chao